2 thoughts on “I Have to Move On Without Closure…

  1. I watched your video Abt your best friend and I had a similar thing happen with me and my best friend. She meet a guy, they dated and had kids. I was there for her when the 1st was born, I actually told her she was pregnant, bc I had a dream about it and it was true, She was with a little girl like I told her. When she had the little girl, we grew apart, I raise my neice, so it was the kid thing that made was grow apart. Fast forward Abt 3 years have past, haven’t heard from her but maybe 3 times in 3 years. The only time I seen her new baby was at the store. She reaches out to me and was going through some finical problems, and the father of her kids had left. I helped her out that week, even tho I was in the financial state to help, I did. The next week when she was supposed to pay me back, she blocked me and I haven’t heard from her since. Money wasn’t the issue, I can get over that, it just the fact that I have no clue what going on. I feel as if it has something to do with the boyfriend/father of her kids. Maybe there is something that’s going on she is ashamed of, or I feel as if there maybe. I have distanced myself before from a very close friend bc I was ashamed of something that was going on, we have gotten over it since then( this being a different friend than the one I was talking Abt) but maybe that’s what’s going on, and I completely understand it’s hard. I had lost my mother and she was my rock! So when my best friend just completely cut me off it hurt b she was all I had I felt like. I had to move on and like you I blocked her bc I just need to move on. It hurts but I want you I know I have also had a similar experience. I love reading your blogs and seeing your instagram reels and post! You have a beautiful family!!! I hope all is well and pray you find closer!!!

    1. Thanks for sharing. I think you’re right–there’s so many different factors that contribute to people growing apart. It’s an unfortunate part of life that we all must go through. I’m learning to be thankful for the people that stay, despite all odds, instead of the ones that I have to beg not to leave.

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